Attracting Success in Network Marketing Companies Or Home Businesses.

By: Nick A. James

Think about this statement - we attract a girlfriend or boyfriend or spouse.

We are always attracting things into our lives and we also knowingly or not repel people and things.

Want to be shunned by those around you, try being a total jerk.
They won't come anywhere near you.

What could you do to attract what you want into your life, learn a new language, lose weight?
Face it certain things we do like good grooming attract others and poor habits like chewing with your mouth open tend to alienate others.

Success in network marketing or a home business, our habits attract it or we inadvertently push it out of our reach. Most people RSVP failure to their party.

In order to succeed in a work at home MLM business here's items to avoid.

First we must realize that our subconscious mind is like a dumb computer. It doesn't know reality, like a computer it gives us what we program it to do.

When our thoughts and overall attention is focused on negative things like, why can't I lose weight, or earn more money we are programming it just like a computer. Our subconscious mind is quite the ignorant fellow, when we sarcastically say I could sure use a hole in my head it's the fellow that in all seriousness responds back, "how big a hole would you like?"�

Okay so now you're probably asking, I get it, but how can I train my mind to attract success and the things I desire?

First we must realize that the world is made up of energy, our thoughts are energy, everything ever created started with a thought.

We have the power to control our destiny and success by learning to control the energy of how we focus our thoughts.

Start out each day by looking for reasons to feel grateful for everything we have and speak them out loud. Being grateful or thankful is like a conditioning exercise. It prepares our mind and creates positive energies for a productive and successful day. In order to remain in this state throughout the day carry something in your pocket that will remind you to be grateful.

Your next step is to define precisely what you want prior to asking. You've probably heard the Biblical expression, Ask and you shall receive!

Now let me say this about asking and most people really misunderstand this.

Since many individuals don't understand asking, I think it is beneficial for your mindset toward success for the next couple paragraphs to explain wealth creation.

Most people don't understand economics, they think the more they get the less for other people. In reality think of this example. If you sewed everything by hand you could never create as many clothes as a machine could produce. As a result a machine would free up people to create other things. So by a person striving to create wealth by producing more they are creating more for all mankind. Thus asking and striving to accomplish more is not selfish but a noble task.

Most of the people in the world are wrong in their perception of most rich people in that they consider their desiring wealth as being selfish. Actually wanting wealth by itself is not selfish or unselfish. It's what's in the person's heart that determines that. Desiring to create wealth enriches many others besides ourselves.

Question there are two people both equally unselfish, one is rich one is poor, which of the two has the ability to help others most?

Many people and leaders in the world would like you to think they are being noble and unselfish. They'll make statements like the rich should pay more in taxes to provide more benefits for poor people. Although they never propose actually taxing wealth, but an increase in income taxes on the rich. Because income is actually a measure of production, what they are really proposing is this. If you produce a lot and thus help many others you will have to pay more, this discourages productivity. On the other hand someone who produces little is taxed less, almost encouraged to be lazy and produce less. I'm not proposing it but it actually makes more sense to tax accumulated wealth than a tax on the production of wealth (income tax). However, don't look for an accumulated wealth tax anytime soon, as many of the people running things are already wealthy.

Have you considered why these do-gooders who seem to want to define what is selfish and what is not, think as they do? Consider that there have always been people for many centuries whose goal has been through government to control the lives of others.

Consider this question, how does government get it's money, does it create it or does it gain it through taxing people? Most people in government have never created wealth through a business so in their way of thinking if someone becomes wealthy someone else became poorer. (A zero sum model) The whole point here is simply to understand wealth and success creation. I felt necessary to include this as to understand success requires a little understanding about how to best help others with wealth.

Okay we're back from our slight diversion let's now focus on what asking means to success.

What do you think of when you hear the word asking? When you were young you asked your parents for money or to borrow the car. Well what we are talking about here is much the same except we're not asking our parents. When we asked our parents for something we usually didn't get what we desired unless we were very specific. If we just said can I have some money we usually would get a response back, for what purpose and how much money, and if we couldn't give an exact amount or a specific reason we most likely wouldn't get the money. And if we asked for the car when we were 14 years old we weren't going to get it because we weren't ready, we weren't old enough.

This is much like the energies of the world work when we ask, we must be specific and we must be prepared to receive.

So the key to asking is being very specific and even writing it down on paper. Also top performance experts will coach you to visualize your desired result. So for example if your goal was a new home visualize the neighborhood, is the house brick or stucco, what color, how many bedrooms and bathrooms. Basically the more precise details you have the better.

It is critical you understand this concept. When you were young and asked your parents for something you always got an answer. It may not have been the answer you were looking for but you got an answer. The same is true in our pursuit of success. If we have properly prepared to receive what our desire is we will receive it, otherwise it will be postponed until we are prepared.

It seems the world will only let us receive what we asked for if we are prepared first. It would serve us no good to ask for winning an Olympic Gold winner in a sport we had never trained in. So a certain amount of training prepares us to receive what our goal is. It's not enough to just think about our goal, we need to expect to achieve it. Most people place limits on themselves by thinking, "I'd like to however, I could never afford to live in a Million Dollar home". When we think these negative thoughts we program our subconscious mind to think all these statements are true and so it will continue to help keep us poor as long as we think this way.

The poor are poor because they either don't understand or they are lazy. This is not to trash the poor - I was once poor many years ago when I was young and lacked understanding. What happens though is that many poor people gain knowledge and understanding of success, which allows them to rise up. It is never too late in life to gain understanding.

Those of us who have learned the principals and have been down the path of success, are I believe obligated to achieve success so we can be of help to our fellow man. Recall the famous words of a great leader, Abraham Lincoln, "A poor person can never became rich by making a rich person poor." In the Bible it is written, do not forsake the poor. And that is so true, however, the blind can't lead the blind. If we are poor ourselves we can only minimally be of help to those who are poor. We cannot make the lazy person work, but we can pass our wisdom on to those who want to learn it.

So the key to attracting success is learning to control our thoughts. Without even realizing it we'll often gravitate toward thinking negative. For example: Why can't I lose weight, a better thought would be, I'm not committed to losing weight because if I were I would be good-looking fit. Instead of; I can't afford that, a better thought would be, I'm going to have that or I simply choose not to purchase it now as I choose something better. Instead of thinking; I would like to have that; say or think; I will have that.

I cannot stress the importance of never using the words, want or wanting or need or needing. It is like programming your thinking and your mind you are in want or need. (Wealthy people never are in want and they are never in need.) Wouldn't it be better and more positive to think or say, I will or I am going to have it? However, saying positive things for the sake of saying positive things, without actions promoting confidence and inspiring beliefs, are of no value whatsoever.

When we learn to program our thoughts toward confidence and belief we're learning to attract success. This is why it's important to have a basis of wisdom and principals of love for others to govern our thoughts like the 10 Commandments. There have been many evil men who where guided by their own made up principals who were extremely confident in their own beliefs, however because they were not guided by a love for others they attracted much temporary success in ruling countries, however they also brought much misery on the world (men like Hitler, Stalin, Mao and many more).

Thus I believe it is very important that what we do, we do with an attitude of love toward our fellow man.

Let me ask you a question, have you ever seen a totally confident person in all their actions who was not successful?

So if you want to attract success like a magnet, first learn to control your thoughts.

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Nick A. James offers network marketing business reviews, vitamins products and a Goji Juice Health Blog. Contact him at: www.healthfulberry.com/goji-juice-resources.html His years of business experience puts him in a valuable situation to assist individuals searching for a profitable work at home Goji Health Drink Business.

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