Inside the Female Orgasm.

By: Mcihaelgs

Is it really so hard to give a woman an orgasm? Many men say that it is an arduous task getting a woman to reach orgasm, but on the other hand, men who know what to do can get it done. So the question is, do you?
Any health, loving and lasting relationship counts a great sex life as a key ingredient. If you take the time to look around, it is generally fairly easy to figure out which of the couples are happy. These are the couples that still look at each other with lust in their eyes! So what’s their secret? It’s probably because they are BOTH sexually satisfied in their relationship.
It is common knowledge among people that women cannot reach an orgasm as easily or quickly as men. This just builds sexual frustration. And sexual frustration manifests itself in many negative ways in a relationship; until one day, you both wake up and realize that you no longer have passion in each other and in your lives.
The good news is it’s really not hard at all to make a woman reach an orgasm. But you both have to work at it, which, if you think about it, is part of the fun as well!
This is a step by step guide to make her come. It is one of the many tools that Gabrielle Moore, an expert on sex education has created. Click here to learn more about other tools by visiting her website...
Step 1
Engage in a lot of foreplay! Foreplay is very important because it helps her relax her mind and make her more focused on the lovemaking at hand. It’s also a great way to bond as many women associate foreplay as a man’s way of taking time and ensuring sex is not just a physical act but about intimacy.
Foreplay can start hours or even days in advance and is really limited only by your sexual imagination. Foreplay may serve to arouse your partner such that orgasm is rapidly reached wheen intercourse is engaged in.

Step 2
If foreplay is the ‘primer’, oral sex is the next big step. Lots of women say that oral sex is the only rea way to reach orgasm and so don't be shy if you both want it to be that way.
When you do go down on her, don’t rush it. Show her that you really love her by lavishing her genitals with your undivided attention. Enjoy the way there just as much as getting there.
In the beginning, start soft and just tease and lick in a loving fashion. Once she’s focused on that part of her body, increase the tempo. As soon as the breaths become harder and closer together, or her legs become rigid, it is important to focus your attention on her clitoris. Tease it by drawing small circles around it with your tongue and then apply more pressure and lick faster.
If she gives any indication at all that she’s really turned on, remember this: DON’T change anything. Keep the tempo of what you’re doing and she’ll reach her orgasm soon enough.
Step 3
If your tongue doesn’t bring her to an immediate orgasm, don’t despair. Fingers are an essential tool when looking to please a woman. Use your index finger to ‘trace’ the outline of her labia. Make certain you caress her softly. Doing this is a sure fired way to electrify her body. After this, place your index and middle finger together and then draw circles around her clitoris.
Give some extra care to her body (is it in a pleasured, relaxed state or is it pulled taut like a string?) to gauge just how turned on she is. Don’t forget to pay attention to her moans and groans as well.
You can alternate using your tongue and fingers to stimulate her clitoris and just like what’s advised above, if she indicates something that’s really turning her on, just keep doing it! To learn more about other techniques to stimulate her, click here…

Step 4

If clitoral stimulation has not brought on an orgasm yet, then try G-spot stimulation! Assuming that she’s already hot and wet, slowly insert your index and middle finger inside her womanhood, palm up. When you get inside, put your fingers in the 11 o'clock position. Slowly try and locate a small bump or swelling (like an engorged clitoris). Once you find this spot, congratulations… you’ve located the elusive G-spot!
Step 5
You can stimulate the G-spot in many ways. You can tap it with your fingers, draw lazy or frenzied circles around it, or flick it wildly like a light switch. You can try to stimulate her clitoris while also stimulating her g-spot by using your thumb. This is certain to provide her with a truly memorable orgasm!

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