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Sexual Problems For Men and Women

Some of the biggest problems for daters are the various sexual issues they face when the relationship goes well. It's all lovely when you're dancing, dining and chatting over dessert, but what if you have a sexual issue when the lights go down, and you get into bed? There are several ways this can be challenging.

The biggest issues which men face include premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and delayed ejaculation. Most men will have experienced premature ejaculation at some point in their sexual life, because it is by far the most common men's sexual problem: over 75% of men ejaculate within three minutes of entering their partner during sexual intercourse. If you're a man, the best way to cope with this is to ensure that your partner has enjoyed her orgasm through oral sex or manual play before you penetrate. That way, she'll be happy and you'll enjoy the thrill of a new sexual partner without worrying that you look stupid because you come too quickly. And it's always helpful to remind her that you're ejaculating so quickly is because you're so thrilled to be enjoying her body in this special way!

The next most common men's problem is erection problems, which affects about ten percent of men at any one time. This is really a fairly simple problem to deal with in many cases, especially when the problem stems from first night nerves. If you're a man and you lose your erection, don't panic, just tell her that this just reflects your anxiety about ensuring she's happy in bed, and then give her an orgasm through oral sex or manual play, knowing that next time you'll be more sure of yourself and able to make love without losing your erection. A great way to boost your sexual confidence is to buy some Viagra, which you can obtain from various internet pharmacies, and take it before you have sex. This will help you to overcome any confidence related issues about losing your erection.

The third most common men's sexual problem is called male orgasmic disorder. This is a slightly more unusual problem where a man cannot ejaculate during sex despite long thrusting during intercourse. It's often a major issue for men and women, which causes conflict and misery in a sexual relationship. If you're a man who has had this problem in sex, there is a simple treatment program on the website listed below in the resource box.

For women, the most common problem is inability to orgasm during sex, a condition called anorgasmia. Often it's caused by a woman's nerves about lovemaking, or the fact that she has problems with her body. If you're a woman with problems coming during sex, you might like to look at the website below which has a self-help you can use at home to deal with difficulty in reaching orgasm, and which should make lovemaking into a happy event which gives you both great satisfaction.

Finally, for couples, there's the perennial issue of which sexual position to use in sex. We all enjoy the basic missionary and woman on top positions, along with rear entry and perhaps the side by side sexual position as well, but it's certainly true that variety is the spice of life when it comes to sex. If you'd like to explore the whole world of sex positions, there's a tasteful website with lots of photos, called Sex Techniques and Positions. Just enter "Sex Techniques and Positions" into Google and it will come up.

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Rod Phillips is writer of How To Beat Delayed Ejaculation. You can find more information on sex positions at Sex Techniques and Sex Positions. If you want to beat premature ejaculation, see How To Last Longer In Bed.

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